Emotional Fool

I just started blogging today. I found that expressing views on any matter in a more rational manner helps a person lot. Very often every one of us have certain views on certain matters and it may not be possible to communicate to the concerned person for various reasons or to people at large. May be the blogging can help me to overcome. I am starting against this background.

Today the topic which i started is " Emotional Fool". I liked this because my dearest friend has given this title to me. I am not sure how much the person meant or what that person intended to communciate though knowing that person very well, the same is not intended to use in a derogatroy manner. I thought i could give some views on this.

Every one of us have emotions. Without emotions a person cannot survive. Some people knows how to control it or some people knows how to express it. But the excessive emotions may not be a good. Every one of us carry certain weakness spot. When the person hits his or her weakness spot the emotions comes out. Very often we blame the other person for being emotional but we do not know how much we contribute to other person emotions. The single biggest reason comes is lack of understanding of the other person or nagging the other person. Finally we blame the person for being emotional.

I dont think having emotions is worng or bad but use the emotions in a more positive manner or divert to rightful way. If the emotionsl are used in a negative manner it spells disaster. I have gone through emotions various times but certainly i try to use the emotions in a positive way rather than negative manner.

In the epcis which i have read i may think that leading Saints like Thyagraraga, Thirunavukarsar all had emotions but their emotions are dedicated to God. Maruti was also emotional with Lord Ram. In fact the saying is that people who worship Lord Maruti is blessed by Lord Ram more than worshipping Lord Ram, because the dedication to Ram is extremely high. This dedication comes out of emotion. These are positive emotions. The example of negative emotions is King Drudharashtra attachment to his sons without being rationale. The other positive emotion but not to the right person is Karna's attachment to Duryodhana. In today parlance, we may call Karna as emotional because though he was aware that Lord Krishna is on the other side and supporting Duryodhana will not prevent the inevitable yet he chose the path because of his attachment to Duryodhana.

The primary reason for any emotion is dedictaion or possessive of any object or relation. In my view dedication to a right cause or possessive of a relation is not bad but keeping yourself positive is important. In our real life we are dedicated to certain relation or association. I consider the dedication in a right manner is not bad and certainly this dedication will keep you active. Another important factor leads to positive emotions is dedication without expectations. A dedictaion without expectations will improve the state of mind and helps us to overcome disappointments. Therefore i dont think being emotional is bad but be positive on the relation or object which you are possesive. If it is like Karna attachment it is welcome. Let the "emotional fool" be considered "emotional intelligent" and certainly it helps the people.
To conclude i may be emotional but certianly my emotions are positive and for me any relation which i create is a life long relation irrespective of how other person thinks or treats me and absolutely no expectations of any reciprocation. Have a great day.